Thread: How do you...deal with suicide/depression, being 15 yrs old?

i hurt and hurt as life pulls me along...no one to talk to no one to comfert me...no one can possibly kno my pain...die i must..nuthin2 live for...why must i stay..? im really not suppose to be here. mymother was going to abortion me but the crowds screaming and yellin had her scared...i dont kno my father..i just keeo messin up..please help me...or life shall not me lived..

maybe you should go to see a councellor. it sounds stupid but sometimes it does help x x

talk to a school teacher about it.

You should see a psychologist or therapist about depression and see if you can get help through theropy or pills... both maybe.

...First of you sound like your writing a poem. No one in a state of depression actually sits there and writes like that.
...If you need some one to talk to that baddy hun. Call the suicide hotline...And dont begin cutting yourself.

THE BEST MEDICINE IS LAUGHTER.
Laugh until you cant comprehend pain, If you laugh hard enough your blues turn to purple and your eyes will see life in a new view

You seem to be focusing on the bad, look at how your question starts, "life pulls me along", if you change how you view things your life WILL change. No one is irrelevant, every person on this earth is here for a reason, what's yours? Do you know you have the power to change your life Right Now! No one can change your life for you, it's up to you. Your life unfolds around the things you think about. You are what you think, if you think your sad, you're sad, but if you think about what makes you happy, you're happy. You move towards the thing you are most focussed on. Example: remember riding a bike on the sidewalk, you got a little too close to the curb and what did you do, you starred at that curb because you were not going to go off the curb. But you go off the curb anyway, why, because you were so focussed on the curb you steered right off it, you moved towards what you were focussed on!
Do you have goals, needs, aspirations... wright them down, RIGHT NOW, keep them with you at all times, read them over and over, see them in your mind, how would you feel if you achieved them? Remember stay focussed on what you want, not what you don't want and you can have or be anything!

That's a normal struggle for you as a teenager,just all of us.

You DO have a reason to be alive,you must e good at something,you look around and see that there's some another people that live through more pain than you do,you gotta realize that your not the only one that didn't know her father,there are some kids who had thrown away in streets because they have no parents.
Some poeple who die from cancer eventually

I know that times get tuff for everyone. Often times it's good to just talk to someone, wheather it be a counselour at school, a teacher or a theripist. Even just a good friend that you have. It is very important to be open with how you are feeling and not to hide it. There is help out there for you. Don't let things that people say about your past or even the things you think are a mess up now hurt you more. Mainly I would say think positively, and try to remember everything that you have and the people that would miss you. Suicide is a serious matter and I'm sure that you have a lot of dreams that you still want to accomplish in life only being 15, and if you can't think of anything now maybe you should try to set some goals and give yourself something to look forward to reaching. I hope you take my advice and talk to someone. Good luck!

First I just have to disagree with Lady Joker as sometimes writing things down, be it just like a diary or as a poem can help. Just try to get your thoughts out of your head, by writing or talking to someone, because it makes you see them in a different light when you do.
Please don't end your life. It is not nice to sit in assembly in school and hear that a schoolmate has died, trust me. I would hate to be sitting in your school with your school mates and teachers to hear that you have died. Until you learn to be here for yourself, just try and be here for others. When the urge gets really strong, just say to yourself 'I will wait till tomorrow and see how I feel' - try to 'put it off'. I have never had the same strong feeling in the morning. If you ever see the funny film 'What about Bob' (watch it sometime!) he is told to take 'baby-steps' which helped me because you must try and focus on one day at a time. Remember that tomorrow is a new day and you can't start afresh.
I agree with those who say talk to someone, are there any approachable teachers that you can go and see or a school counsellor maybe? I know it may be hard but people are there to help you, so take full advantage
Take care x

Go to church, and talk to people at school. If nothing else talk atleast to your mom or couselor.
Plus you should do something to get your mind off of yourself. Try to serve someone. Go out and make someone elses life better.