Thread: Me and husband alway always argue.?

We always argue everyday he is cursing me and I am sick to death of it Ijust got a part time job (That I love ) to get out of the house. He is a mommy's boy. He says he loves me one minute and the next I am a b****. I am so tired of this stuff I can't take it anymore. I have called the cops on him. Tryed to talk to him. everything. He says the cops won't do crap to him because his uncle is the sheirff . I went to the doctor one time and told them I though I was going bi-polar and they put me on some light meds. I never seen a cousler. I went off my meds because they were just zoning me out and I know that I am not bipolar. I just have a crazy husband thats trying to make me crazy. I can't leave because I have No family to help. I don't have any money besides this very part time job that I just got ( 4 days a month) and I don't know what to do anymore. I don't want my child to have to see his mom and dad argue anymore. He always threatens to take my son away because he says money talks and s*** walks. He makes 80,000 a year and I make 1,500 a year. He says he will tell them in court that I am bipolar and not taking meds. I am not bipolar. I should have never went to the doctor I just wanted some depression pills to see if they would help. I am a nurse. I know I am not bipolar yet it scares the crap out of me knowing he can use that over me. He is very very jelouse and controlling I can't even go to wal-mart. I snuck my son out one day so we could go eat and my son told me to look at my food because there were men around and he would tell his dad. I feel so trapped! What do you do when you got no body and no help and no money???? Can he take my son away from me because he is kin to law enforcment and I stopped taking my meds? (I am going back to the doctor in a few days So I can talk with the doctor and tell them I should not have said I thought I was going bipolar ) HELP Me

sdounds like the only advice I can give you is to get affidavits from everyone you know stating you are not BIPOLAR and see if that will help but basically he is right he can make it look as though you have gone off the deep end sorry

I really don't understand what you are asking here. if you can't move out then you are stuck. it sounds like your son is old enough and he is now controlling you. you really need to grow up and take control of your life. your husband is only acting like this because you let him.

contact a lawyer, you should be able to find one that will take your case. i know you don't have much money, but your husband could be forced to pay for your attorney. do not waste time. you could stay in the house , kick your husband out and he could be forced to give you money every month to take care of you and your children. the sooner you go the better. so go talk to a layer, now

Leave his ass.

Instead of working 4 days a month, you should start working 5 days a week. Financial independence will let you deal with your husband from a position of power.

Go to a different town and hire a lawyer.

He cannot take your son away without a court order- and for that there would have to be proof that you're an unfit mother. You don't sound like one, you sound like a woman who has a controlling asshole for a husband.

I can't imagine the doctor put in your records you were bi-polar without testing you. I don't think that will hold up in court. Lot's of women in marriages like you describe, obtain meds for depression. That could work to your advantage. There are many many places abused women can go for help getting out of the situation they are in. You should try that if you really want out of that situation. It sounds like you need to get your son out of it too or he's gonna be like his daddy.

This is an awful situation. Maybe try a women's shelter? I don't have any advice, particularly without you having any family to go to. I am going through something similar (though not near as bad as this situation), and I'm devising a leaving strategy myself. Good luck.